45th wedding anniversary gift ideas & sapphire history

2nd November 2023

Reaching 45 years of marriage is an incredible achievement that deserves a special celebration.

After spending decades making wonderful memories together, you’ll want to honour your spouse and show just how much you appreciate their love, support, commitment and companionship with a thoughtful gift.

Here, we’ve curated a list of romantic 45th wedding anniversary gifts that your wife will treasure and admire for many more years to come.

What is the traditional 45th wedding anniversary gift?

Traditionally, after 45 years of a happy marriage, a sapphire gift is given to each other. With their deep blue colour, sapphires represent their deep, endless love for one another. Sapphires are a symbol of good fortune, wisdom, faithfulness and sincerity too. All traits needed to reach such a momentous milestone.

Legend even says that if the wearer's love begins to diminish, a sapphire will turn from blue to green. So, when blue sapphires are given as a 45th-anniversary gift, it shows the long-lasting adoration between the couple.

Sapphire wedding gift ideas for her

If you have a 45th wedding anniversary to celebrate soon and want to get your wife something truly beautiful, these gifts are guaranteed to impress.



1.Half eternity blue sapphire ring

What better way to symbolise your continuous and ongoing love than with a half eternity sapphire ring? Half eternity rings feature a continuous line of stunning sapphire stones on the face of the ring, rather than around the whole ring, for a more comfortable fit. This elegant ring with 18K white gold is designed to sit alongside your wife’s engagement and wedding ring, making the diamonds look even more prominent and creating a statement with brilliance and sparkle.

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2. Oval sapphire drop diamond earrings

Modern yet sophisticated, our oval sapphire drop earrings will certainly add a bit of extra glamour to your anniversary celebrations - whether you’re throwing a party with your nearest and dearest or having a romantic night in. Set in 18K white gold with round diamonds surrounding the sapphires, these earrings will catch light and sparkle beautifully.

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3. Round blue sapphire circle pendant

Throughout history, the circle has represented commitment and eternal love, hence the reason why rings were exchanged for marriage. If you want to reiterate that message to your wife for your anniversary, the round blue sapphire circle pendant will make the perfect gift. With its simple design, this pendant can be worn every day or dressed up for a more formal event.

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4.Blue sapphire tennis bracelet

With its classic beauty and timeless elegance, a tennis bracelet will never go out of style. Having been extremely popular for the last 30 years, tennis bracelets have remained a firm favourite owing to their versatile style. Our blue sapphire tennis bracelet also features round diamonds, set in 18K white gold and will surely delight your wife.

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Commonly asked questions

Got a question about the 45th wedding anniversary? Well, you’re in the right place, as we’ll be answering the most commonly asked questions here.

What colour is 45th wedding anniversary?

The official colour of the 45th wedding anniversary is blue sapphire. This exquisite stone symbolises the everlasting love between a couple. It also has a meaning of hope and faith which is perfect as you spend many more years together.

What is the symbol for 45 years of marriage?

Sapphires are the symbol of 45 years of marriage. This hard-wearing stone is one of the strongest gemstones, scoring a 9 on the Mohs scale of hardness, meaning it can be worn every day without the worry of it getting damaged easily. This makes it the perfect gift for your 45th wedding anniversary.

What do you do for your parent’s 45th wedding anniversary?

If your parents are celebrating their 45th wedding anniversary, we’d recommend choosing a gift that features sapphires. For your dad, this could be a set of cufflinks or a tie pin with sapphires embedded. For your mum, a pair of gorgeous sapphire stud earrings will definitely be appreciated. Of, if you want to get them something they can do together, why not book them an appointment with our bespoke design service for them to create a piece of sapphire jewellery together?

What is the flower for 45th wedding anniversary?

In keeping with the blue theme, the blue iris is the flower for the 45th wedding anniversary. This delicate flower looks lovely when featured in a bouquet and will really stand out among other flowers, such as white roses or lilies. With a meaning of faith and hope, they’ll also make a meaningful gift alongside a piece of sapphire jewellery.

For more inspiration, browse our extensive collection of gemstone diamond rings, gemstone earrings, gemstone pendants and gemstone bracelets to find the perfect anniversary gift.

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