Proposing is a huge milestone in your relationship. Although it’s an incredibly exciting time, it’s also natural to feel nervous or apprehensive before popping the question. As it’s such a pivotal moment in any relationship, you may also feel pressure to make it special and memorable. For a perfect proposal, as well as getting the right engagement ring, you’re going to need the right location, timing and words. However, with careful consideration and preparation, planning your proposal can be easy and enjoyable.
If you’re currently thinking ‘How can I propose to my girlfriend?’, we’re here to help you feel confident and ready to get down on one knee! In this post, we’ll cover how to propose a girl with some simple tips to consider and remember for your big moment!
How long should you wait to propose?
Every relationship is different and has a unique timeline, so although there’s no universal ‘right’ time to propose, there are some considerations you should take into account.
Firstly, you need to ensure that marriage is something your partner is something they want. Have you discussed your future together, including marriage? Ensure your goals and values align.
Also, make sure that you both feel emotionally ready for the commitment that comes with marriage. Neither of you should feel pressured or rushed into making such a significant decision. You should trust your instincts and the natural progression of your relationship before you take it to the next level.
What do you say when proposing?
So that you’re not fumbling over the right thing to say, think about what you want to say in advance.
Rather than a long, elaborate speech, make your words personal. Reminisce about how you met or how your life your life has changed. Share funny memories or heartfelt moments you’ve shared as a couple. You could also say what qualities you admire in them as a partner and why you see your future together.
Also, don’t forget in the moment to say the all-important words: ‘Will you marry me?’
Which knee do you propose on?
Traditionally, the proposer would go down on one knee to present the ring box to their partner. This gesture has long been practised and can be traced back to the days of knights kneeling as a symbol of respect and devotion. Typically, you go down on your left knee if you are right-handed, but your choice of knee is not as important as the sincerity behind the gesture! Equally, if you don’t want to kneel or cannot, it’s also completely your choice!
What are some good ways to propose?
Now you’ve learnt more about the gesture of proposing, let’s focus on finding the perfect location or setting for your big moment! Remember to always keep your partner’s preference at the forefront of your mind when organising.
Classic romantic dinner proposal
Surprise them with a proposal while out for dinner. Pick a charming restaurant that serves their favourite food served by romantic candlelight. Choose a moment that feels right to you. You could propose at the start of the meal and pop the champagne, or arrange ahead of time for the dessert at the end of your meal to spell out ‘Will you marry me?’.
The beach at sunset
Sunset is a romantic time to propose. If your partner loves spending time at the beach, why not pop the question while by the sea? As the sun sets, share in your speech the symbolism of the sun setting on one chapter of your lives together as a new one starts.
At her favourite restaurant
If you’re looking for a thoughtful way to propose, consider taking your loved one’s favourite restaurant. As a place that holds special sentimental value, it’ll show that you’ve considered their preferences. Plus, it’ll hold even more of a special meaning after proposing!
Family and friends gathering
For some, being surrounded by family and friends is their dream proposal. Whether it’s a party, holiday or special occasion, having everyone together to celebrate your big news will make it memorable. Just be mindful of not overshadowing other’s occasions when popping the question!
Incorporate a hobby
Does your partner have a hobby or do you share an interest? Incorporating this into your proposal could make it uniquely personal. Whether you both love reading, cooking or a certain sport, including it in your proposal will ensure it’s unforgettable!
Destination proposal
Is there somewhere they’ve always dreamed of visiting? Plan a surprise trip to that place for your proposal! Not only will the excitement of the trip make it memorable but also be significant if it’s somewhere they’ve longed to go.
On a blanket under the stars
If your partner would prefer a quiet proposal, propose to them under the stars. Spread a soft blanket out on the ground and lay back to enjoy some star gazing. You’ll have a starlit background for your magical moment!
On a scenic hike
Enjoy being in the great outdoors? Head out for an adventure to remember with a scenic hike or walk with a proposal at the end. This setting also has a deeper meaning of being on a journey together, as well as reaching new heights together as a couple!
Where you had your first date
This is our favourite answer to ‘How to Propose to My Girlfriend’! Take your partner back to the place where it all began: where you had your first date. This location will hold sentimental value to them, so revisiting it for your milestone moment will only cement this place as somewhere special to you both.
In a hot air balloon
Ask for your loved one’s hand in a hot air balloon. Not only will you be treated to breathtaking views from this vantage point, you’ll also enjoy the thrill of an adventure in the skies with this epic proposal!
Flash mob proposal
If you’re both extroverts looking for an exciting proposal, consider hiring a flash mob! The synchronised choreography and surprise gathering of friends and strangers will generate an unforgettable atmosphere. It’s sure to be unforgettable!
What are the best lies to use?
While honesty is the best policy in a relationship, when it comes to proposing a few small ‘white lies’ can help ensure your big moment stays a surprise. You’ll likely have to keep any bookings you make a secret, as well as your trips to the jewellers. Don’t forget to also remind any other people involved in the proposal about it being a secret!
Pick an engagement ring that fits her style and personality
Now you’ve got your proposal plan nailed down, you also need to consider the perfect ring. Start by observing how they wear their current jewellery. Do they like to wear classic, modern, or vintage pieces? What precious metal do they prefer? Yellow gold, white gold, rose gold or platinum?
If your partner prefers a classic look, you could opt for a solitaire diamond or a trilogy design. Those with modern tastes may prefer different diamond or band shapes. Vintage enthusiasts may love filigree details or halo settings, or even colourful gemstones.
If you need help or guidance selecting the perfect ring, speak to our Jewellery Experts in-store or online via live chat now!
Ready to propose?
Hopefully, we’ve covered how to propose a girl (or partner!) in a personal and meaningful way. However you choose to pop the question, make sure you feel confident and ready for the big moment. This can be accomplished with careful preparation in the lead-up, such as writing down the words you want to say to them. As long as you keep your partner’s wishes in mind – from the ring to the proposal, we’re sure you’ll secure that ‘yes’!
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Proposing is a huge milestone in your relationship. Although it’s an incredibly exciting time, it’s also natural to feel nervous or apprehensive before popping the question. As it’s such a pivotal moment in any relationship, you may also feel pressure to make it special and memorable. For a perfect proposal, as well as getting the right engagement ring, you’re going to need the right location, timing and words. However, with careful consideration and preparation, planning your proposal can be easy and enjoyable.
If you’re currently thinking ‘How can I propose to my girlfriend?’, we’re here to help you feel confident and ready to get down on one knee! In this post, we’ll cover how to propose a girl with some simple tips to consider and remember for your big moment!
How long should you wait to propose?
Every relationship is different and has a unique timeline, so although there’s no universal ‘right’ time to propose, there are some considerations you should take into account.
Firstly, you need to ensure that marriage is something your partner is something they want. Have you discussed your future together, including marriage? Ensure your goals and values align.
Also, make sure that you both feel emotionally ready for the commitment that comes with marriage. Neither of you should feel pressured or rushed into making such a significant decision. You should trust your instincts and the natural progression of your relationship before you take it to the next level.
What do you say when proposing?
So that you’re not fumbling over the right thing to say, think about what you want to say in advance.
Rather than a long, elaborate speech, make your words personal. Reminisce about how you met or how your life your life has changed. Share funny memories or heartfelt moments you’ve shared as a couple. You could also say what qualities you admire in them as a partner and why you see your future together.
Also, don’t forget in the moment to say the all-important words: ‘Will you marry me?’
Which knee do you propose on?
Traditionally, the proposer would go down on one knee to present the ring box to their partner. This gesture has long been practised and can be traced back to the days of knights kneeling as a symbol of respect and devotion. Typically, you go down on your left knee if you are right-handed, but your choice of knee is not as important as the sincerity behind the gesture! Equally, if you don’t want to kneel or cannot, it’s also completely your choice!
What are some good ways to propose?
Now you’ve learnt more about the gesture of proposing, let’s focus on finding the perfect location or setting for your big moment! Remember to always keep your partner’s preference at the forefront of your mind when organising.
Classic romantic dinner proposal
Surprise them with a proposal while out for dinner. Pick a charming restaurant that serves their favourite food served by romantic candlelight. Choose a moment that feels right to you. You could propose at the start of the meal and pop the champagne, or arrange ahead of time for the dessert at the end of your meal to spell out ‘Will you marry me?’.
The beach at sunset
Sunset is a romantic time to propose. If your partner loves spending time at the beach, why not pop the question while by the sea? As the sun sets, share in your speech the symbolism of the sun setting on one chapter of your lives together as a new one starts.
At her favourite restaurant
If you’re looking for a thoughtful way to propose, consider taking your loved one’s favourite restaurant. As a place that holds special sentimental value, it’ll show that you’ve considered their preferences. Plus, it’ll hold even more of a special meaning after proposing!
Family and friends gathering
For some, being surrounded by family and friends is their dream proposal. Whether it’s a party, holiday or special occasion, having everyone together to celebrate your big news will make it memorable. Just be mindful of not overshadowing other’s occasions when popping the question!
Incorporate a hobby
Does your partner have a hobby or do you share an interest? Incorporating this into your proposal could make it uniquely personal. Whether you both love reading, cooking or a certain sport, including it in your proposal will ensure it’s unforgettable!
Destination proposal
Is there somewhere they’ve always dreamed of visiting? Plan a surprise trip to that place for your proposal! Not only will the excitement of the trip make it memorable but also be significant if it’s somewhere they’ve longed to go.
On a blanket under the stars
If your partner would prefer a quiet proposal, propose to them under the stars. Spread a soft blanket out on the ground and lay back to enjoy some star gazing. You’ll have a starlit background for your magical moment!
On a scenic hike
Enjoy being in the great outdoors? Head out for an adventure to remember with a scenic hike or walk with a proposal at the end. This setting also has a deeper meaning of being on a journey together, as well as reaching new heights together as a couple!
Where you had your first date
This is our favourite answer to ‘How to Propose to My Girlfriend’! Take your partner back to the place where it all began: where you had your first date. This location will hold sentimental value to them, so revisiting it for your milestone moment will only cement this place as somewhere special to you both.
In a hot air balloon
Ask for your loved one’s hand in a hot air balloon. Not only will you be treated to breathtaking views from this vantage point, you’ll also enjoy the thrill of an adventure in the skies with this epic proposal!
Flash mob proposal
If you’re both extroverts looking for an exciting proposal, consider hiring a flash mob! The synchronised choreography and surprise gathering of friends and strangers will generate an unforgettable atmosphere. It’s sure to be unforgettable!
What are the best lies to use?
While honesty is the best policy in a relationship, when it comes to proposing a few small ‘white lies’ can help ensure your big moment stays a surprise. You’ll likely have to keep any bookings you make a secret, as well as your trips to the jewellers. Don’t forget to also remind any other people involved in the proposal about it being a secret!
Pick an engagement ring that fits her style and personality
Now you’ve got your proposal plan nailed down, you also need to consider the perfect ring. Start by observing how they wear their current jewellery. Do they like to wear classic, modern, or vintage pieces? What precious metal do they prefer? Yellow gold, white gold, rose gold or platinum?
If your partner prefers a classic look, you could opt for a solitaire diamond or a trilogy design. Those with modern tastes may prefer different diamond or band shapes. Vintage enthusiasts may love filigree details or halo settings, or even colourful gemstones.
If you need help or guidance selecting the perfect ring, speak to our Jewellery Experts in-store or online via live chat now!
Ready to propose?
Hopefully, we’ve covered how to propose a girl (or partner!) in a personal and meaningful way. However you choose to pop the question, make sure you feel confident and ready for the big moment. This can be accomplished with careful preparation in the lead-up, such as writing down the words you want to say to them. As long as you keep your partner’s wishes in mind – from the ring to the proposal, we’re sure you’ll secure that ‘yes’!
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